Getting to Know the Blogging Baseball Wives: Glow of Grace

The baseball community is a tight knit group of people. We live such unique lives that it is actually hard not to connect with those you meet because of the game. Strangely enough, I feel some sort of closeness with “baseball people” I never have even actually met! I’ve been following Rachel’s blog for about a year now and after reading all of her posts and watching all of her videos, I feel like I know her (…and that we are BFFs – she just doesn’t know it!). She has such a fun, spirited personality that comes across so noticeably if you watch just one second of any of her tutorials. To top it off, she is an absolute artist with a make-up brush! I can’t begin tell you how much I have learned from her…I can actually do my make-up now and even feel confident enough to try new products and techniques! But enough about what I think, I’d like you all to meet the very talented – Rachel Weiland!

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Current organization: Houston Astros

Years in baseball: Drafted in 2008 by the Boston Red Sox and traded to the Houston Astros in December 2011.

Do you travel with your husband? If yes, how long and what are the best/worst things about it? : Yes, but I wasn’t always able to! I worked in Columbus, OH all through our engagement and the first few months of our marriage, and I was only able to visit him one weekend a month if my work schedule permitted. It was so hard to be apart, and eventually I left my job in May 2011 to go on the road with him. I’ve been blessed to be able to travel with him ever since! I love being able to keep our little family (myself, my husband, and our two adorable cats) together all year round. It’s also been a great blessing to be able to support him from the stands, and witness great events, like his major league debut, that I probably would have missed had I still been working. The toughest thing for me has been adjusting to “not knowing”–where we will live tomorrow, what team he will be on, etc. I’m a Type A planner to my core, so I’ve had to learn to roll with the punches and just put everything in God’s hands. He will lead us where He needs us!

Tell me a little about YOU (not the hubby!): I was born and raised in Orange County, California and I graduated from the University of Notre Dame in 2009 with degrees in Chinese and English. Yes, I said Chinese! I studied abroad in Taiwan, and I speak Chinese fluently, although I’m quite rusty after a couple years of very little practice. I love to sing, and I’ve recently joined our church choir and praise band, which has been incredibly fun! Music was a huge part of my life growing up, so it’s really nice to get back in to it now that I’ve got the time.

Tell me about your blog and why you started it? : Last year was my first Spring Training, and I was looking for things to keep me occupied since I was no longer working. My mom suggested I start a blog and YouTube Channel to share some of my tips, tricks, and ideas for makeup looks. I’ve always loved to write and had a passion for all things beauty, so it made sense to combine the two. And so Glow of Grace was born. However, I wanted to do more than just write about makeup and beauty products because I think beauty truly comes from the inside. My faith is a huge part of my life and who I am, and I wanted that to shine through my words. I think women, and especially young girls, need more role models with good values and morals, so I strive to be a person that people not only look to for beauty advice, but for how to live a life that reflects the grace of God. My interests are also fairly well-rounded, and we are obviously blessed with opportunities to travel all over, so I’ve thrown in some reviews of different places and favorite recipes as well. I’ve actually debated, and continue to debate, whether or not to blog about our baseball life or not. I don’t think my readers and subscribers even know I’m a baseball wife! Sometimes I think it would be helpful for our friends and families to have a place to look for updates, and certainly helpful for me to have an outlet to keep sane, but I’m still undecided. And since my husband is recovering and rehabbing from a shoulder infection, I’ve got another season to make up mind.

Favorite product of the moment: Oh, this is so hard! I have so many! Well, Spring has definitely arrived here in Austin, so I’m going to have to go with my Maybelline Vivid Lipstick in Pink Pop. I actually don’t wear a ton of makeup on a daily basis, so I throw on a little mascara, maybe a little eyeliner, and this bright pink lipstick. It makes me feel put together and ready for Spring with very little effort.

Best beauty advice for those baseball ladies (or any ladies) who travel a lot: Invest in a train case! Life on the road means never knowing what kind of storage or lighting your next bathroom will have. A good train case will keep your makeup organized and ready for transport at a moment’s notice. I don’t ever bring my entire makeup collection with me on the road, but it holds enough to keep even makeup junkies like myself satisfied! Plus I find I use more of my collection when I can see it all clearly in front of me. I used to keep everything stored in makeup bags, and I’d always reach for the same few products over and over while the rest of my makeup lay forgotten. My train case is from Sephora and I love it, but I’m sure you can find other options at places like WalMart or on Amazon.

 
Now that you know a little about Rachel, go visit her at www.glowofgrace.com and see how wonderful she is!

Writer’s Block and Beautiful Music

Writer’s block is the pits (especially when you are trying to be a good blogger and post more often). But I have another very special feature on one of those super talented blogging baseball wives that I started to tell you all about last month coming up soon, so get excited! Spring Training is going really well, and I can’t believe that we are only two weeks away from real live baseball season.

Nope, I haven’t started packing yet.

Nope, I don’t have a clue where we might be starting the season yet.

Nope, I’m not concerned at all. :-)

So that’s really it for now, just one last thing…I heard this song after dropping Addison off at the field this morning and it really spoke to my heart. I just wanted to share it with you all because I love everything about it.

Searching for Solitude

God works in mysterious ways. There is no doubt in my mind about that. This whole morning I have felt restless and a little bit uneasy. Could it be the fact that today is the first “official” day of Spring Training for Addison, heralding the beginning of a very long baseball season? Why yes, I think so. It’s not that I’m NOT ready for it, I really am and I’m even excited to start going to games again. But way down deep I feel a pull at my heart. It is an all too familiar feeling that I get a lot during baseball season. Since I’ve been feeling this I’ve worked hard to keep myself busy in an effort to avoid it. I’ve already cleaned, paid bills, organized some stuff, and checked my twitter feed a zillion times. If you know me, you know I’m not all about the cleaning and organizing thing…so what gives? Well, I finally sat down and read today’s women’s devotional from Baseball Chapel and it all kind of clicked.

I’m feeling lonely.

Ugh. It’s not even like it’s been that long since I’ve been alone. Addison has just been at camp for a few hours and he will be home again in a few hours. I really don’t even think that it’s a present loneliness that I’m feeling. It’s like I’m prepping for loneliness to come.  With baseball season comes moving to an unknown place, spending most of the day by myself, and being left alone on long away trips. Anyways that really isn’t the point here. The devotional talked about the differences between loneliness and solitude. I have always viewed my aloneness as loneliness, and I would constantly try to fill it with fluff…TV, internet, shopping, etc. But I don’t have to be lonely. I don’t have to seek out ways to cure myself of that loneliness. I just need a new perspective.

SOLITUDE.

I can enjoy my aloneness by seeking ways to better myself and further my relationship with Christ. There is no reason to feel lonely when I’m alone, because I’m never really “alone”. My goal for this season is to seek out times of solitude, enjoy them, and make the most of them. I know I was meant to read that particular devotional today of all days, and I’m thankful for the comfort only the Lord can provide me.

Getting to Know the Blogging Baseball Wives: My Serendipitous Life as a Baseball Wife

I have a special treat for you! Today is my first in a series of interviews done with some talented blogging baseball wives! My first guest is one you may have heard me mention before, as we lived together for about six months last baseball season. I’m always waiting for her next blog post because she has a very captivating way of writing. Her beautifully written words always leave me feeling inspired and uplifted, and occasionally make me laugh really hard (just read her post on cat walking)! So without further ado, please meet Camille Campins-Adams.

C & D Adams

Current organization: New York Yankees

Years in baseball: Drafted by the Yankees in 2008 making this our 5th year of professional baseball.

Do you travel with your husband?: Yes

How long have you been traveling with him and what are the best/worst things about it?: This will be my second year on the road. There are far more positives than negatives, most importantly, being able to be together throughout the year; Above all else that is the most critical aspect of traveling. I would say the only negative is living off of one income. Being on the road, you either have to stop working altogether or get creative with how you can contribute to your household income. For me, this has been the biggest challenge, but the benefits far outweigh the minor adjustments needed to make it work.

Tell us a little about YOU (not the hubby!):  I graduated from the University of Miami (Florida) in December of 2008 with a Bachelor of Business Administration. I majored in Marketing and minored in Exercise Science. I have been a licensed realtor in Florida since 2006 but ever since going on the road I have had to hang up the license – even if only for a short while. I am a vegan and huge animal lover. David and I travel with our 70 LB mutt and our three black cats. Traveling with the animals is a challenge but I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Why did you start your blog?: I have always had a passion for writing but I had a hard time finding a topic interesting enough to blog about. When I realized that writing about my experiences as a baseball wife would be a natural fit and could help other ladies, I took the leap.

Tell me about your blog: My blog is really just an outlet for me. I am a very emotional and expressive person and it is a great way to get all my feelings off my chest. Although I love sharing a lot about our lives there is definitely a whole lot I prefer to keep private so I try to keep my posts lighthearted. On occasion, I do write some pretty profound posts that will take you for a ride through this roller coaster of a life.

Best advice for other baseball ladies: Let go and let God. Despite all the blessings that accompany the baseball life, it has its challenges. As physically draining as it can be, it is far more emotionally draining than anything. When I started traveling with David my eyes saw things and my ears heard things I had never even imagined. I have learned to stay focused on ourselves and not allow the outside world or its opinions effect us. We count our blessings every day and trust that God has a plan for us. So much happens in this life that is out of our control, so we have to focus on what we can control and hand everything else to God.

You can visit her and leave her some love at her blog, www.camillecampinsadams.com .

Perspective

Good Morning!

I hope all of you are having a blessed Christmas season so far. Addison and I started what I call our “gypsy holiday travels” earlier this week and today we are getting on the road to our next destination. This morning I woke up in an unusually good mood and I had the urge to write to you all today. I want to talk to you about perspective. Complaining is just a part of human nature, to never be satisfied with what we have seems to be built into our core. I have been trying hard to break out of that very nasty habit. Because those thoughts…”oh, this will happen when Addison makes the big leagues…things will be like this when we have our own house…we will be so much happier when this happens”…THOSE thoughts are what keep me from enjoying every second of my life right now. And for what? Those thoughts might not ever become reality, so why am I clinging to them so hard? It’s because for those moments when I let those thoughts take over I take my eyes off of perspective. In the United States of America we the people have lives that most of the world couldn’t even dream of. If you are a poor man here you could go to some other countries and be considered wealthy. Houses, telephones, computers, freedom of religion and speech, beds, clothes, FOOD, WATER. For many of us these are things we don’t even consider to be luxuries, but they are to most of the people in our world. All I ask of each of you that reads this today is that you look at your life in a different way. Before you complain about your situation, put it in perspective first. Continue to dream big in your life, do what you love, have the things you want. Just be happy and thankful that you can.

I live a life that I love and I thank God for it every day. Christmas is upon us and I urge each of you to remember the REAL reason that we celebrate; the birth of our savior Jesus Christ. I hope each and every one of you has a very Merry Christmas full of family, love, and laughter.

Love Always,

Breanna